DOCUMENTING SOME OF THE MOMENTS THROUGH A STAGE 4 CANCER DIAGNOSIS AND LIFE BEYOND IT

As may have been apparent from the title of this post, this is Alice’s husband rather than Alice with this post as sadly Alice passed away last month. I know many people were following her updates on this blog, and I have received kind messages myself from people as far

From before the day she was born Alice and I talked about how we would raise our girl, and in amongst everything that has happened, there has always been a constant in our belief of what we want for our little girl. This poem (read so beautifully by Clare at

An update on where we are, but where to start? Jesus, it’s been quite the ride. I’m not sure how the last few months and weeks have happened, but things have moved fast. I’ll do my best to update you on what’s happened, where we are right now and what

As I write this, on 22nd January 2026, I am thinking of this day a year ago. It’s been a year, 365 days, since I was diagnosed with Stage IV cancer. A date forever etched in my memory. It’s been a strange week leading up to this date. It’s bothered

Advances in medical science are something we’re all hoping for. And last night I experienced one. Not a change that’s going to hit the headlines for how many lives it can save, but one that, for me, looks to have changed mine for the better. A new anti-sickness medication agreed

Preface: I realise when I share these updates, that they don’t always make for easy reading. My intention is never to shock or cause upset, but to provide a bit of an insight and update in to what’s been happening, where I’m at and how things are going. I’ve been