DOCUMENTING SOME OF THE MOMENTS THROUGH A STAGE 4 CANCER DIAGNOSIS AND LIFE BEYOND IT

I'm not sure what this page is going to be, but I do know that writing has been really helpful in working through some of my thoughts over the last few weeks.

Maybe some of it will be of interest, but hopefully it's a record of these moments, possibly some humour thrown in, but most importantly a series of love letters to my girl.

I'm still here, and I'll always be hers.

One Year On

As I write this, on 22nd January 2026, I am thinking of this day a year ago. It’s been a year, 365 days, since I was diagnosed with Stage IV cancer. A date forever etched in my memory. It’s been a strange week leading up to this date. It’s bothered

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The Wonder Of Science

Advances in medical science are something we’re all hoping for. And last night I experienced one. Not a change that’s going to hit the headlines for how many lives it can save, but one that, for me, looks to have changed mine for the better. A new anti-sickness medication agreed

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A little update ….

Preface: I realise when I share these updates, that they don’t always make for easy reading. My intention is never to shock or cause upset, but to provide a bit of an insight and update in to what’s been happening, where I’m at and how things are going. I’ve been

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Wake Up, Maggie, I think I got something to say to you

And it’s a resounding Thank You. For those that don’t know, Maggie’s is a charity that provide free support to anyone with cancer, and their families. They aim to help people take back control when cancer turns life upside down. For us, that support has been varied and invaluable. There

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Christmas Isn’t Cancelled (Yet)

So mid-August saw my next scan. The scan-xiety wasn’t too bad, this time. It was still there, but didn’t take over my life like it had previously. I think my expectations had lowered after the June results and so I wasn’t holding out huge amounts of hope this time. This

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Beach Days and Bone Mets

It’s been some time since I wrote an update or posted on ‘Still Here, Always Hers’. Since I last updated at the end of May, life has been life-ing – happiness interspersed with cancer, chemotherapy and side effects. There’s been a conscious effort to live, to make memories, to find

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